Dating, Friends, and Saturday nights....

Well I would love to vent about dating here.... the last three weekends, a Saturday night date for dinner, with three different guys, (one each weekend).... just friends.  But I don't know where to start.  I am still processing all this myself.  I have tried the online services, blind dates of friends of a family member, etc and so forth.  I have my opinion on all of this "fixing up" and I want to keep an open un-jaded mind here. But is it even possible?  Not to become jaded I mean?