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May 23, 2014

Watermelon drinks for Memorial Day!

I wanted to find a recipe for a cool watermelon drink, and found this (but i subtracted the alcohol reference, since i don't need that added).:

Can't wait to try this weekend...

Watermelon Coolers with NO alcohol
PREP TIME
5 Minute/s













Ingredients
  • 4 cups cubed, seedless watermelon, chilled
  • 1 cup ice cubes
  • 1/4 cup fresh-squeezed lime juice
  • 1/4 cup coconut milk
Instructions
  1. Blend all ingredients together until smooth.
  2. Rim glasses with granulated sugar and serve up watermelon lime coolers!
  3. Garnish with a lime wedge or small watermelon slice.
  4. Enjoy!
This above is a modified version of a recipe found from Style Me Pretty Living.  

Or you can make it with lemonade and 2 tbsp honey and use these instructions:

  • Freeze the watermelon in a ziploc bag until just frozen, about one hour.  Add the frozen watermelon to a blender, along with your lemonade and honey.  Process until blended, and pour into frosted jars or glasses.
Decisions, decisions!

This and more can be found on the links from my Pinterest Board:  SUMMER.  Check it out!

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Happy Holiday Weekend!!

Sep 18, 2013

Each Day, Each Decision, Each Defining Moment

I'm so proud of my kiddos, my treasures.  They make me crazy at times. I don't need to go there, but they are also making me quite proud.

Jas is off to college and seems to be settling in.  He's been home only once and I like that he is getting a feel for being on his own and doing things on his own - even though I know he is hanging with his friends and even staying over in their dorm - instead of his own suite.... but that's a story for another day about his room mate.  At the very least he is developing a routine and getting into the groove of the work expected of him; and so far I haven't gotten any sobbing phone calls in the middle of the night - begging to come home for good. (knock on wood)



Kass has started high school and is really doing well.  We moved, which placed her in a different high school from her brother - actually the one she wanted to attend - and she loves it.  She is so grown up that it is even shocking sometimes to me.  We hang out in the evenings during the week, make dinner together and work on some chore at the house.  I love this time we get to bond, making memories, just the two of us.


Then there are my other kiddos that aren't here as often: Chad's three that we try to see as much as we can (like the camping trip last weekend with 4 of our 5 kiddos):

Tori is driving already!  She is also doing well this year and looking forward to getting her license sooner than I like to think about, lol.  She seems to be enjoying her second year of high school and the social life it brings.



Rach is finishing up her last year of middle school and has outdone herself with her latest accomplishment with violin.  She is first row 2nd chair - what a high honor!  We are very proud of the fact she is excelling and putting her energy into something she loves, her talent with music.  (And Rach- I hope i have your chair listing correct!)


And then there's Drew.  Little rambunctious Drew that loves his electronics and his books.  So smart he amazes us all as he sails above the rest of his classmates in most of his subjects.

I pray for them daily and my hope is that they will continue to remember and acknowledge that each day, each decision, each defining moment leads them to the bigger picture that results from the choices they make.  I want the best for them but more than that - more than even I can imagine for them - I want God's best for them.  I pray they will also strive for what God has for their futures - His best.

Find yourself, keeping it real...

Kat




Oct 18, 2011

One boyfriend, one curfew, one text message at a time

While the debate is on in the background, I wanted to sit down and finally f.i.n.a.l.l.y. write another blog.  I have so much to share with my readers, but I will spare you the boring and only share the highlights.

The kiddos

Jas and Kass, the kiddos… I now refer to them in public as “the bigguns.”  They are growing up so fast I can’t keep up; and I am with them every day. (Well almost every day. But I digress <= already!)

Kass has a boyfriend. Seriously you don’t want me to get started on that point.  Trust me when I say, I am just going to leave it at that. And yes, she now has the “worst mother ever” because of the guidelines I have instructed about me being “in-the-know” regarding their conversations and “text messages.” (Can I just skip this part of her life and do a fast forward?!) Sadly if I did – she would be out of college and married after that blink.  Let the roller coaster ride begin, then.

Jas went to his homecoming dance. (Yes, can you believe a formal dance!) And he dressed for it: I have pictures to prove it. He is talking more and more about college plans, taking PSAT tests and I am still reminding him he needs to start applying for those ever lovely scholarships.  Can you believe I will be getting his senior portraits done in just 8 months?! Yeah, I need to stop before I hyperventilate.

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The House/Move

Not sure if and/or when we will be moving/selling the house.  That seems to be in an “on hold” mode right now.  But with recent and “other” improvements on the list, we are still enjoying the process of making this one just like we want it.  My kiddos love living here.

Goals

I have been working on creating my goals for the next 5 years and trying to simplify exactly what that means from finances to my children’s spiritual growth.  One thing I do realize more and more each day is this parenting thing is tough.  Don’t let anyone tell you that it’s easy (even with two parents partnering together in one house). It gets tougher as they mature into these ‘tweens’ and teens; and sometimes I have to step back and ask God, “Can I do this?” Then I am reminded, “I can do all things, through Christ…” even when I feel like pulling my hair out.

Interjection here… I am watching the debate and it’s almost comical as they deliberate about “apples and oranges” for this 9-9-9 plan on the taxes.  That is all.

But in the meantime…day by day…

As I prepare for those goals and discuss my kiddos’ (the bigguns’) futures with them, we continue pressing on each day-- one at a time: one hairdo, one curfew, one text message, one XBox match, one girl scout session, one church service, one grade, one boyfriend, at-a-time.

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Aug 10, 2011

The Magic of Disney World

To take you away from the recent gloom and doom in the news from the stock market decline to London’s riots and Philadelphia’s youth vandalizing (What’s up with that, right?), let me share with you some sense of escape for a few minutes about a magical place…

We have now returned from our “magical” vacation.  This is the one I have wanted to take the kiddos on since they were young and finally was successful doing so.  Even though they fought like cats and dogs  - yes they don’t get along right now at the tender ages of being a tween and teen on the brink of adulthood. But between their disagreements on rides, and where to eat and… and… and… we had a great time. Sincerely, we did.

They also flew for the first time and we were impressed with Allegiant Air, with their prices and their services, so I will give them a shout out here. Kass was the unlucky one in our group randomly chosen for the extra security check: But she did great and didn’t freak out! Can you believe it?

Jas now says he is meant to travel.  He loved flying and even considered the possibility of making Florida his home someday… well maybe.  And to his own surprise, he found some rides that he enjoyed amongst the many parks we visited during the trip, between Disney’s Epcot, Magic Kingdom and Animal Kingdom and especially at Universal Islands of Adventure.

Kass tried a roller coaster  at Magic Kingdom and enjoyed it!  She even had her hands up on the 50 foot drop! However, when we ventured out and did the Expedition Everest Coaster in Animal Kingdom---even I thought it was intense; and now she says she will not get on another coaster again.  Oh well.

and his boys joined us on the trip.  (No worries, they had a separate hotel room, people.) The four kiddos actually got along pretty well, except for the few times they seemed to gang up on and pick on Kass… with three boys and one tween girl, what do you expect, right?  But for the most part they did great together.

Here are a few pics from the trip for your enjoyment:

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There are plenty more where those came from.  I will keep you posted of when I load the album designated just for Disney….

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Jul 14, 2011

Warning: Playing games with your children will make them Happy

Take some time out this weekend and get the kiddos outside.  I know how much they all love video games and being on the computer. Trust me. I do.abstract gold background

But it is healthier for them to have some time in the sun and to be exercising. Plus time spent with you and potentially other children will make them happier.

“But I’m bored”

This is one famous common phrase said by so many children, yet in today’s world – they have so much more stuff than “we” did when we were their age.  But in many ways with so much “more,” some of our little ones might have lost the incentive or the initiative to use their imaginations!

I remember times when I would act out a part in the backyard from a summer movie I had just seen; or just playing with friends from the neighborhood. 

You don’t know any games to get them started, you say?

Here’s a link to just a few all-time favorites.

So pull out those memory banks, look at this link, put on your “play clothes” and go play with your kiddos outside this weekend!

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May 24, 2011

Drowning Doesn’t Look Like Drowning

For all my readers, imageI wanted to share a great article with you that a friend of mine shared with me.

Here is the link below.  All parents have to take measures to protect their children and to know what to look out for.  This is especially true when around the water.

So if you plan to visit the beach this summer, the lake over Memorial Day, or even if you just plan to go to the pool nearby, take a few moments to read this article, by Mario Vittone.

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May 7, 2011

A new fave

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Apr 25, 2011

Making the Most of Easter and Other Holidays Alone

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Spring has sprung and Easter arrived to celebrate new life, and for Christians – the new life you received  when you accepted the very . His story in history is what gives us joy unspeakable. 

I celebrated the day without the kiddos (it was their dad’s weekend, you know). Following a morning of worship celebration at church, I went with friends to a dynamic 2 hour drama of the Resurrection of Christ in Radford that night. The day was full and the focus was obvious. 

It is tough when you have to celebrate some of the holidays without your children being there. I know.  I get it. But making the most of your holiday, even when you are alone, is where you have to focus your time, your energy, and your planning. 

It can be so easy to let yourself get caught up in the gloomy, oh-my-life-stinks mode.  But how much more enjoyable it could be if you would just refute that mode and with intentionality make the choice to fill your day with friends and things you enjoy.

    1. Plan a special time to celebrate with the children on a different day than the holiday falls, if they will be “visiting” on the holiday itself.
    2. Make the tradition and fun be about the holiday season – not just the specific day.  Spread out the celebrating so it falls on more than one day during the season.
    3. In advance, contact friends and make plans for the day when the children will be away.  Plan a meal with friends or family, an outing, or plan to join them in their .
    4. Make a list of things you don’t get to do when busy with the children.  Have it available to pull out when you feel the “blahs” of your . Here’s I put together three years ago.

These are just a few simple ideas to keep yourself from focusing on the negative when you have time on your hands without the children, especially during a holiday.

It’s normal to think about them, wishing they were near.  But just think, when they are off to college and doing their own thing on holidays throughout the year, you will be this much more prepared for it.

For some of us, those college days are closer than we like to think about.

Find yourself

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Photo Credit: Katherine Shinault

Apr 6, 2011

Soul Surfer while I wait…

While I sit waiting on Kassity to finish with her Orthodontist appointment… and waiting, at least they have Wi-Fi available. 

Surfing the web and going through my emails, I found the release on this upcoming movie this weekend.  : This is one I do want to see.  Have you seen the previews?  A girl who suffers from an accident that results in amputation, finds her true purpose and passion in life while supported by her family and her faith.

The storyline is excellent and I look forward to sharing this one with the kiddos (well at least Kass).

Here are some fan’s testimonials below and some clips from the film.

Enjoy!

 

 

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Feb 6, 2011

Super Bowl Memories

As I sit here and watch the half-time show of the Super Bowl, I am a little disappointed; but the commercials have been pretty good.

Jas, Kass, E, and I are watching it at our own private party. . and his boys didn’t want to watch the game, they had no desire, so they decided to stay at home and play video games and watch movies.  I didn’t want Jas to miss the game, so here we sit at our house for the evening.

E has to leave before the second half, so our party is dwindling down. Kass has to be in bed by 9:30, so our party will be over soon.  image

As I sit here, I am thinking about two Super Bowls ago.  Remember that night?  If you read my blog you might remember that memorable night.

Enjoy.

Find yourself… keeping it real.

Photo Credit: thedailygreen.com

Jan 26, 2011

TOP TEN Biggest Little Things of 2010

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I wrote this list in December and didn’t ever post it because it needed links. 

Here’s the TOP TEN for 2010… with links and all.  Finally.

Enjoy.

10. Jas’ comment recently “Do I get to take my bed when we move?”

9. Funniest Christmas memory of 2010

8. Writing a procedure manual on the side– and getting paid for it.

7. Getting the book, Eat, Pray, Love for free on PaperBackSwap.com

6. The .

5. Writing for

4. Finishing the “work in progress”   Finally.

3. to level the lot and re-seed as prep for putting the house on the market.

2. .

and the Number ONE thing in the list of Biggest Little things was:

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Photo Credit: PhotoXpress.com, author: scalesy

Jan 1, 2011

Funniest Christmas Moment 2010

We had a lot of fun this Christmas from making to getting snow Christmas Eve.  We blended our traditions this year as . and I plan possible future Christmases together.

But one moment sticks out in my mind as the funniest.

Mr. M’s sister and her family came in town the day after Christmas.  My kiddos had already left for their dad’s house the night Mr. M and I exchanged presents with her family.  I brought the gifts for Jas and Kass home with me for them to open when they returned later that week.

When Jas and Kass opened their presents from his sister’s family we were at our house.  When Jas opened his present he pulls out a box kit of Rice Krispy Holiday Treats Maker.  He looks at me with a look of bewilderment.  I said, “Well maybe she thought you like rice krispy treats, so we could make some.”  He said, “Okay,” and put the box aside under the tree.image

Later that day, the neighbor and Kass’ dear friend, E came over to see what they had gotten.  When Kass started telling her about the gift from Mr. M’s sister… she showed E what Jas had received and that we thought it was funny (since Jas is almost 16).  E said, “There’s tape on this box.  Did you try to open it?”

Well I hadn’t seen the tape and he hadn’t tried to open it.  Jas came back into the room and opened the “Treats” box to find a cool hoody from Foot Locker inside.  It fit him great – and he loves it.  What a surprise!

I got so tickled over us thinking he got the treat making kit that I couldn’t stop laughing later when I shared the story with Mr. M.  His response: “What a dork.”

What’s your favorite funny moment from Christmas 2010?

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Dec 26, 2010

A snapshot of Christmas Eve thru December 26

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A Christmas present to me… excavating the backyard to get rid of the large mounds of dirt from the back yard and level it out.  Getting ready to put it on the market!  This was Christmas Eve when they finished leveling all the dirt.

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Then we headed to Kevin’s place: Here there were presents everywhere as we waited for Santa to come that night.

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Christmas morning!

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Our kiddos merged Christmas morning for the first time.  Some different traditions – but it all worked together.

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Mr. M opening presents.

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We also got a white Christmas!

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From the vehicle…

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Sledding with Mr. M, his youngest son and his nephews the day after Christmas.  We got more snow overnight!

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Mr. M – just a big kid at heart.

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The duo

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A snow angel to end the set.

Hope your Christmas was full of memories.  Ours sure was.

Find yourself… keeping it real.

Dec 7, 2010

More Memories



My baby girl at her Christmas program Sunday morning. Isn't she cool with her sleeves rolled up. My niece is in front of her here with the bell. She sang a solo during the program. We were so proud of all of them.

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Dec 5, 2010

Snowflakes

   Last night while it snowed outside, we were busy making snowflake crafts for the Christmas tree inside.  had this great idea to buy snowflake forms and use beads from his jewelry making (and I bought some colored beads to match my tree) to make these snowflakes.

The kiddos and I drove home later through the beautiful winter wonderland as the snow piled up on the grass a few inches, but the roads were fine.

It was a wonderful Christmas memory we were making along with those snowflakes.

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Here’s my tree I finally got put up earlier that day.  We have another one in the dining room the kiddos and Mr. M’s boys decorate. (Yes we have two large Christmas trees in the tiny house.)

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Even my son, Jas got in on the snowflake making:

Here’s his creation.

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What Christmas memories are you making this year?

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Nov 8, 2010

Ode to Autumn… Tadah!

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Kass and E are best friends. E is our neighbor but is more like one of the family, I tell her that often.  These two act more like sisters than just friends. The day on the hike was no different as they walked ahead of , his boys, and I. Of course they had their time for girl talk (or should we say boy talk) as they crunched in the leaves and posed for the camera from time to time.

Find yourself… keeping it real.

Nov 6, 2010

Ode to Fall in the Color of Pink

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When we went hiking last weekend on the Blue Ridge parkway, I took a few pictures before I knocked the camera one too many times and messed it up.  The shots I got on the hike weren’t fabulous. 

But I love the pink peaking through the bare trees in this one.  It was getting close to the peak of the fall colors in this part of Virginia and some of the trees had lost their leaves… but that pinkish looking one was holding on to her fall colors, her fashion statement, for as long as she could.  Strong woman. Nothing wrong with that.

Find yourself… keeping it real.

Nov 2, 2010

Yes she freaks out…

“Oh EM Ghee! Happy’s dead!”

Now before you hit the big X in the upper right corner of your screen, read on and hear the rest of this story…

The above statement was being made by my daughter yesterday when we returned home from her scout meeting.  Her frantic yelling at an octave higher than I can explain was in addition to her jumping and swaying from side to side from the gate of the front yard. In the distance, in the dark, Happy was laying by the back porch on the driveway. 

My vehicle (SUV mind you) is sitting diagonal in the street facing the closed gate at the driveway.  Kass got out to simply let the dogs (yes we have 2) into the house so she could open the gate for me…2010-10-16 055 quickly… to get parked.

But instead, she sees our older dog laying there and presumes, instantly he must be dead.

She is a little over dramatic and easily panicked.  So put the two together with a dog lying on the driveway and what do you get?

My SUV sitting diagonally in the street right outside my driveway, placed into park, as I now have been demanded by the panic stricken to go check because she refuses to see if he might be ‘just asleep.’

Yeah, you guessed it.

Happy was asleep.

He’s old, yes.  But he likes to sleep. As do I, but I won’t digress here.

What have we all learned from this little episode?

Not much.

Wish I could tell you some great epiphany of a family life lesson was pulled from this.  But instead, I was just grateful he wasn’t dead, so I could say, “See, there!” “You get all excited for nothing sometimes.”

Will she take it down a notch next time she jumps to conclusions, or perhaps maybe wait before jumping to conclusions? Naaah, probably not. 

Find yourself… keeping it real.

Oct 23, 2010

tis the season… for pumpkin carving

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We had a blast creating these jack o’ lanterns: kiddos and . and I.  And,yes we did follow the fun with some roasted pumpkin seeds, since we had tons. Need I say more?

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