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Sep 10, 2008

Love takes Time.... HOW MUCH TIME?


In a previous blog while on vacation  I mentioned there was a new guy in my life, we'll call him "K".  I haven't said much about him, I know, and with reason.  A song came on the radio while we were traveling one day... I adopted it as my current theme song..... "Can't hurry Love" Sung by Diana Ross:


I need love, love
To ease my mind
I need to find, find someone to call mine
But mama said
You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
She said love don't come easy
Its a game of give and take
You cant hurry love
No, you just have to wait
You got to trust, give it time
No matter how long it takes
But how many heartaches
Must I stand before I find a love

.........The lyrics continue here.

I think this song rings true right now for me and so I am taking my time. Trust me.  Time is my friend.

We are about to meet for the first time in person, so we have only been talking by email, text, and by phone up to this point.  We met through an online dating site, of course. (I mean where do you think a single mom with a full time job and two kids is going to meet guys?  I don't have the luck of meeting a great guy at Barnes and Noble, like Ms Single MAMA. :)  Or perhaps I am not trying hard enough when I am out and about at the bookstore, library or produce market.)

A Little That I Know About Him

He is a single dad.

He is a Christian.

He is local!

He has a great phone voice.

He is sincere in conversation and considerate.

He listens.

We have a lot in common:

He is a computer tech.

He is intelligent. (Yeah, ok I guess I think of myself as being somewhat intelligent :)

He doesn't like coffee.... which is rare and the closest thing to a coffee drink I will ever buy is a latte'

He enjoys games (board games and card games... come on... you knew what I was talking about!)

He enjoys being single but is open to a potential relationship with the right person.

He loves his children and they are top priority to him.

So Where Do We Go From Here?

Well, at this point I can say I am looking forward to meeting him this week.  I always look forward to our conversations and he puts me at ease on the phone.  Time will tell.  (Oh and since I bring in my past experiences, I have already asked him to prove his age... He knew the year he was born right away unlike some others) ... so kudos go to him already!   :)

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Ms. Single Mama said...

OMG!! This is SO exciting. I can't wait to hear about your meeting.

Don't you just LOVE those butterflies?

T said...

Well he sounds great! And I too, believe strongly in chemistry by phone. I look forward to reading about your first meeting!!

Heather @ Desperately Seeking Sanity said...

ACK!!!! how exciting!!!!!!

dadshouse said...

Hey, how great. I like that you appreciated this about him: He is sincere in conversation and considerate. That to me is huge. Hope your date is fun.

Single Mom Seeking said...

I can't wait to hear more! I cracked about your at-least-he-know-the-year he was born comment.... Ha!

Heather @ Not a DIY Life said...

Can't wait to hear more!

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